Adoption Dos & Don’ts



When individuals are serious about adoption, there is much to consider. There are many things which are required of the adoptive parents and there are many things that the adoptive parents should attempt to avoid. Once a couple make their decision about what type of child they want, what adoption method they will use and which country or location they want to adopt from, it is imperative to follow the criteria set down for the adoption. Making sure to comply with all rules and regulations of the adoption would be considered necessary ‘dos’.

There are plenty of adoption dos, primarily with regards to the adoption process. Unless the criterion is followed to the letter, the adoption may not be approved and the prospective adoptive parents, as well as the adoptive child, may face major disappointment. Complying with the requirements of the adoption should be a priority for prospective adoptive parents. Adoption is a sensitive procedure and it pays to play by the rules.

When prospective adoptive parents get the go ahead for an adoption, they need to pay attention to all details of the process. It is essential they don’t ignore any detail or requirement stated in the adoption contract. There are often things which are initially overlooked or misunderstood when prospective adoptive parents discuss adoption. It is important that individuals who are adopting don’t underestimate the costs involved in the adoption process. Fees pertaining to adoption can accumulate very quickly. Prospective adoptive parents must be financially prepared for adoption.

When adopting, prospective parents should not underestimate the risk factors involved in any adoption. Being informed you are going to be an adoptive parent must be a great feeling. In the excitement and anticipation, adoptive parents may overlook or even choose to ignore the risk factors involved in adoption. If you are considering adoption, don’t underestimate or overlook the risk factors of adoption. One of these risk factors might be the chance that the birth mother might change her mind. As prospective adoptive parents, don’t pass up any opportunity to screen a prospective birth mother. It is imperative to be certain of her intentions in hopes of avoiding the ultimate disappointment – her changing her mind and keeping what was supposed to be your adoptive child.

Adoption is a lengthily process in most situations. It helps not to be over-anxious when going through the procedure. Being too anxious may cause prospective adoptive parents to make unnecessary mistakes. Being too hasty in closing the deal may mean problems down the road. If you are adopting a child, don’t be too hasty in making decisions. Be sure to read and review all documents and contracts before you agree to them or sign them.

If looking for an adoptive child, don’t trust just anyone to help you. There are many legitimate and licensed individuals and agencies, prepared to help and guide prospective adoptive parents through the adoption process. There are also people who claim to be capable of taking people through the adoption process but in reality they are more interested in their money and carry out fraudulent activities. The main thing to remember with this aspect of adoption is – don’t be too careful.


Patricia Thomasson, EdD; YLC Associates, Yorba Linda, California

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